A new year; a new challenge! How many follk have said that to themselves? How many times did I repeat it like a mantra all through the Autumn of 2014? Well now it's 2015 and how things have changed?
Putting a very positive face on it; the health conditions and symptoms I experienced during the last six months have now been pretty well explained. Theses included:- tiredness, lack of mental clarity, irritibility, confusion, low energy levels, smelly, cloudy urine, hot sweats at night, palpitaations, lumps in my neck and glands areas, breathlessness and pains in bladder, joints and legs. All of these, plus difficulties at work were bringing almost literally to my knees! So quite a bundle of joys!
Had I done anything about these sympoms? Yes - I'd been taking my health and well-being situation pretty seriously - addressing the problems of piles and prostate - joining up with with Live Well Luton to set and achieve improved health aims - I'd increased my exercise and taken significent steps to modify my diet and eating patterns.
So as an outcome of my pre-admission assessment for the long-dreaded prostate zapping I was called back for follow up blood tests as the results indicated significant anomolies. A call back for another consultation and repeat set of tests. It was New Year's Eve - I had walked home from work and had to stop a couple of tmes to catch my breath; was feeling pretty low - and now anxious. I explained to my own satisfaction - it was yet another urine infection. It did bring me down to beyond the point of wishing to celebrate the end of this year I was looking forward to getting beyond.
I duly report to the assigned spot in the Hospital and then promptly get escorted to the Macmillan Ward. I'm greeted by the lovely Dr Flora who sits in a chair and then outlines why I'm where I now sit! With a mixture of drawings and very clear descriptions of my situation she explains I (most probably ) have Chronic Lymphatic Leukemia (CLL). It's incurable; but with 5 or 6 sequences of chemotherapy and some other interventions a likely positive outcome of 3 years remission should result. My brain turned to sausage meat and all the words went in and out of my attention and lay unprocessed on the surgery floor.
Shock! Shock? The words don't convey how I felt. It was my sister's birthday - Kym was coming to collect me and all I could feel was hot-to-the-touch-confusion. Oh good God I was a cancer-sufferer. I genuinely felt no "why me?" thoughts. I sort of accepted in my usual down-to-earth mode. Or perhaps the ostrich was lurking and I was ignoring what I felt and put up a tall, thick hedge to protect my currently fragile person. Dr Flora kicked in and made some positive observations about my age - positive, the good condition of the functions of my other organs and expressed a hopeful outcome. I was glad at this but still couldn't fathom it's consequences. A follow up appointment was being made and my prostate zapping was to be postponed due to the risk of infections etc. Funny that - because without the pre-op checks for that I would perhaps be undiagnosed - I perish at the mere thought of that one!!!
I had to wait for Kym and couldn't tell her just off the cuff - we needed to be back at home. I (as usual) needed to pee - I know two folk who work at A & E what could I tell them - my gibberish mind could conjure up the tem L . . . . something . . . ah yes . . . leprosy! Leukaemia was too much to register.
When we got home I was able to explain much of what had been explained to me. We both had a tear but I was given the gift of positivity and Kym is strong, forward-looking and most caring.
The whole weekend took on surreal dimensions. Anxiety, disbelief, shock all permeated every moment. With my birthday on the horizon a crisis of communication was looming. I felt totally unable to convey my news to any one and in particular; my children. I need a bit of forgiveness here - I didn't want them to ring me. I was unable to confirm what was happening and I wouldn't leave them in a state of unknowing. How could I not possibly consider that they might actually like to come and share my birthday with us? However that was unlikely - but a phonecall was possible. Fortunately for all concerned no calls or nothing said. It's all unclear due to the fear factor. We nipped out for a Sunday Lunch - although I felt decidedly numb.
Monday arrived and Kym forcefully and kindly accompanied me - we are in this together! I was so glad - I couldn't go through another vacant headspace scenario. Dr Flora was equally well versed and clear - Kym asked questions I was prodded and poked and bumps felt. Two weeks Unfit to work note written. Prescriptions written and handed in, counselled by the Pharmacist. Huge bag of drugs collected. We were at the hospital pretty much most of the day.
On the Tuesday I needed to go in to work to explain. Fear, guilt and anxiety took over I'm afraid! Grahame was very shocked, but helpful. This part of the story is in currently uncharted territory. I'm off for two weeks which will be reviewd as necessary. I hope to be able to work from next week (commencing 19th Jan) - possibly at home or certainly away from potentially infectious clients.
The chemo started - so many damn tablets - I can't recall any names - Kym has my timetable and drug plan thank the Lord! Three days chemo, a few days anti-sickness, a longer anti-pneumonia regime. This will be reated every twenty eight days. This is uncharted territory (how many times am I going to say that?)
I felt absolutely terrible - exhausted, head full of rushing sounds, chest palpitations and a prostate painfully complaining about the amount of liquid I need to ingest. As the drugs kicked in I felt buzzings and dizziness in my head. Kym kept taking my temperature as she was petrified if it went up I'd need to be hospitalised. Weight-loss - I've never been skeletal but my varicose veins on my legs and inner thighs were like a map of the Mississippi flood plain - without the floods! But my face and chin line look quite tight - one plus point!! But, Oh how scary can life be?
Then the constipation and faecal impaction took over. I could sleep, I couldn't sit comfortably, I couldn't pee comfortably. This was all getting a bit hellish.
However, once the chemo drugs stopped and a packet of Senna was bought the condition eased and we got through the weekend with a bit more confidence and comfort. Sleep was no refreshment and I was feeling exhausted - Kym was exhausted; but I was so glad for her support.
Monday came and another appointment. Blood tests - poking and prodding. Searching for the node bumps yeilded encouragement - they were dispersing. The white cell lymphocytes count was on the downward turn. Dr Flora answered all my problems - no sleep - Zopiclone, no shits - Movicol, potential mouth infections - antiseptic mouthwash, lethargy and exhaustion - blood transfusion! Job done! Some room for a little joy.
During the afternoon we had a visit from Rev. Phil Horner. Great to see him. I've always related to him as a person and as a minister. He's recovering from a cancer himself and I've so much admiration fro him and Jan his wife. It was a great spirit of love and healing. When you set that against the terrible things that are happening in our lives and in the World at large. Peace, Love and Understanding.
Also to note - the fact that we live in a time and place where medical interventions are available in an efficient and timely fashion. And even specifically - the staff and services at the Luton & Dunstable NHS Hospital.
Two half-decent night's sleep, bowels on the move, brain still in some psycho-meltdown. That's where we are . . . . .
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